So I need a WIDE black belt - as in 3"-4" wide, but maybe closer to 3" - that will fit around my waist (37"-39"ish the last I checked). I have just ordered this one but I'm not sure about it because (a) it might be a hair too small and (b) it might be just too damn wide.

I've got two dresses that need wide black belts to work - one came with one, but it's cheap, flimsy, and a slightly different black than the skirt, and the other one came without one, but the way it fits me, I neeeeed a defined waist and a skinny belt will just allow the material to blouse over it and hide the belt.

If you've got any suggestions, let me know!